Thursday, July 3, 2008

Dating..Relationship..Love..Commitments

Well,everyone seem to be in a delirious..Of what I wonder?..Everywhere I turn,I observe couples snuggling,the old couple scolding one another but with full of "warmth",the newly-weds/into relationship(i infer) holding hands..aww..Many have been debating on the problems that occurs from generation gap..Difference in practices/"culture" etc..But what I see in common that had actually not really change is -LOVE..
What defines love? It depends on individuals.
Well,when do we know we are in love? Is it when our heart beats faster when that special one passes by and we start to squirm in our seat and stretch our necks to get a better view on the "one" and started to do silly stuffs? Or is the description too over the top? Or maybe love is like that?
What forms or build up to the feeling of love?
Dating? Understanding? Or merely "falling" in love..
With that,when is the right time for a relationship?
Many have been in one when they are 14years of age or even when they are 9?who knows..
But is it the right time?
"PRO-LOVERS" may say that let nature takes its course and any time is right for a relationship as long as you really like the "one"..
Some says it depends on the maturity level of the person so as not to get trapped at the "black sheep" side of a relationship..
We do not necessarily need to be in a relationship to understand the meaning of love..Being in one,it like taking a "practical" step rather than just understanding its "theory"..
With the fast-paced life we are in,many commitments "pop" out so how do we deal with it? Are our generations able to still find love?Or what we seem called "love"?
Prioritise is usually said but not practised.
What comes first?
Dating?Relationship?Love?Commitment?
Or everything is utterly same?
There is much beauty in the art of love,dating,relationship followed by commitment but do we still have "one"s to appreciate it for the right reasons?

"The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others"-Ghandi

"When you have decided what you believe, what you feel must be done,have the courage to stand alone and be counted"-Roosevelt

-fadz-

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hello Dearest Gorgeous Bestfriend.
That entry of yours is super though-provoking.I ended up reading lines again and again.Now you've got me thinking hard.AWWW. (:

Anonymous said...

thAT's sure a minD-boggling thEme you gOt thEre.

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