Local guys or foreigners?

Local guys or foreign guys?
It all boils down to what do you want..objectives in life..goals..aspirations..
It has been through hearing from friends' experiences that local guys(LG) are still learning the ropes of how to make them melt and feel more appreciated. LG on the other hand argues that the girls nowadays just have high expectations in life. And there are another group who are just lucky enough to find their other half and satisfied with that.Kudos to you.
Most foreign guys (FG) seems to be able to sweep girls off the ground with their gentleman acts, caring ways. Even if LG says that they are probably just "using" the girls just to have fun.hmm.arent the LG the same?. "Using" may seem as a harsh word. No one seems to embrace this fact that guys are still guys. It is the extra factor they possess they makes them a unique individual.
Most girls ultimately whether they deny it or not, wants to feel wanted, appreciated, loved and understood as they all comes in different sizes, colours, background, status.....
Some even love living in fantasies.
Ladies who feel more secure and do not want to live in another country may settle with LG and there is nothing wrong in that. Like mentioned it all goes down to what do YOU want in life..
LG or FG, they are still guys. Different ladies view them in a different angle, based on different experiences. Some root for LG, others root for FG. Which is better? Only you knows..

"Matters of heart is complicated, but never stop many from falling in love"
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Could a traditional woman with a dash of modernity lives in this modernized world?

Well, many shows have expressed that the ideal woman is someone who cooks, take care of their kids and husbands, clean up well, looks good, caring, understanding and the lists goes on. What is the difference between traditional women and the modern women. Many says it lies in the lifestyle they lives in. Party, clubbing, smoking, sex? well,it has been happening since back then but now,it seems that it has been increasing (women).
In a battle to get the dream guy or even a guy, who stands to "win"? The traditional mindset gal or the fun, party-goers most modern gal? It seems that too often the traditional gal are talked as an ideal one but facts remains that so far guys have been going for the other one. No offense to modern woman . They are what they are.
A young single lady who spends most of her time with her family does not means she is not outgoing, and someone who has no life. Well, life is defined differently to different people. Girls out there who are "forced" to be who they are not so as to get their "dream guy" are too many nowadays.Many girls have had their first kiss, first this and that but what about those who dont? Does it mean they are left behind? It's subjective. Everyone have their basic principles in life,religion and all, so opinions on such matters are debatable.
What seems as unfair is that why do most guys "use" some girls as their back-up plans?
Meaning, they knew some girls will make a good wife etc etc but dont make a good girlfriend...But ended up going back to the girl after having much fun.Hmm. Sounds interesting may i say.
So can a traditional women lives?Oh yes they can but with hearts broken thanks to guys who does not know how to appreciate their uniqueness. Well, not all are like this, there are many happy endings but debatable in the startings. :)

"Be for who you are and not what others want you to be"
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