lust dont last.

Many are confused between the feeling of lust or love. Or maybe the brain shuts our thinking cap when we are with someone we are attracted to. Studies have shown that the brain releases a set of chemicals that leads to how we think,act ... lust is defined as the initial passionate sexual desire and it does not last more than months or even weeks. Thus the reason why relationship should not be based on lust as lust dont last and in turn the relationship dont last. Some may argue that certain feelings of attraction physically is unavoidable and intimacy is what pops in their mind. Hence, the display of affection that we now see in this modernised and more liberalised society we live in. It can also be known as PDA(public display affections).
Not everyone is of accepting of this PDA and they have their own reasons. In addition, the way one is brought up also determines their lifestyle consciously or sub-consciously. Nonetheless, many feel that without intimacy, the relationship is dull and of no oomph! less that they know that when one loves the other, their forms of expressing these differs. The degree of love one expresses is not entirely based on physically, it is deeper than that.
One tends to overlook the beauty of attachment or bonding that lust can never live up to it. If one takes time to understand that there's more to physical affection and venturing in a relationship based on lust solely wont last. It takes two to tango as many have heard. Hence, communication and mutual understanding that many dread tends to be the pillars of a relationship. There are many more where that came from. Ultimately, it's undeniable that the feeling of lust is being experienced, it then boils down to self-control and discipline. Some may then argue that this is nature and no matter how hard we try to control, it does not work.
We are afterall humans..

"love is deeper than pure lusts"
lavender