Could a traditional woman with a dash of modernity lives in this modernized world?

Well, many shows have expressed that the ideal woman is someone who cooks, take care of their kids and husbands, clean up well, looks good, caring, understanding and the lists goes on. What is the difference between traditional women and the modern women. Many says it lies in the lifestyle they lives in. Party, clubbing, smoking, sex? well,it has been happening since back then but now,it seems that it has been increasing (women).
In a battle to get the dream guy or even a guy, who stands to "win"? The traditional mindset gal or the fun, party-goers most modern gal? It seems that too often the traditional gal are talked as an ideal one but facts remains that so far guys have been going for the other one. No offense to modern woman . They are what they are.
A young single lady who spends most of her time with her family does not means she is not outgoing, and someone who has no life. Well, life is defined differently to different people. Girls out there who are "forced" to be who they are not so as to get their "dream guy" are too many nowadays.Many girls have had their first kiss, first this and that but what about those who dont? Does it mean they are left behind? It's subjective. Everyone have their basic principles in life,religion and all, so opinions on such matters are debatable.
What seems as unfair is that why do most guys "use" some girls as their back-up plans?
Meaning, they knew some girls will make a good wife etc etc but dont make a good girlfriend...But ended up going back to the girl after having much fun.Hmm. Sounds interesting may i say.
So can a traditional women lives?Oh yes they can but with hearts broken thanks to guys who does not know how to appreciate their uniqueness. Well, not all are like this, there are many happy endings but debatable in the startings. :)

"Be for who you are and not what others want you to be"
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